At 66

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At 66 I looked around and saw:

A man I love dearly, who loves me right back.A bunch of kids who’ve turned into amazing young adults.

A shiny new granddaughter.

A bunch of friends for whom I’d give my life.

A life rich in hope, wonderful memories, and love.

I hope this happiness for every one of you. 

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